{"id":94005,"date":"2025-04-29T03:23:15","date_gmt":"2025-04-29T03:23:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/2025\/04\/29\/what-deep-questions-have-the-kids-in-your-life-asked\/"},"modified":"2025-04-29T03:23:15","modified_gmt":"2025-04-29T03:23:15","slug":"what-deep-questions-have-the-kids-in-your-life-asked","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/2025\/04\/29\/what-deep-questions-have-the-kids-in-your-life-asked\/","title":{"rendered":"What Deep Questions Have the Kids in Your Life Asked?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"hero-image hero-image-main hero-image-main_1 hero-bleed \"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/st-george-dragon-puppet-show.jpeg\" alt=\"Questions Without Answers by Sarah Manguso and Liana Finck\" width=\"838\" height=\"560\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-337040\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/st-george-dragon-puppet-show.jpeg 838w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/st-george-dragon-puppet-show-723x483.jpeg 723w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/st-george-dragon-puppet-show-680x454.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/st-george-dragon-puppet-show-768x513.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/st-george-dragon-puppet-show-725x483.jpeg 725w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 838px) 100vw, 838px\"\/><\/div>\n<p data-image-hide=\"1\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/st-george-dragon-puppet-show.jpeg\" alt=\"Questions Without Answers by Sarah Manguso and Liana Finck\" width=\"838\" height=\"560\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-337040\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/st-george-dragon-puppet-show.jpeg 838w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/st-george-dragon-puppet-show-723x483.jpeg 723w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/st-george-dragon-puppet-show-680x454.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/st-george-dragon-puppet-show-768x513.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/st-george-dragon-puppet-show-725x483.jpeg 725w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 838px) 100vw, 838px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\u201cDoes the universe end? Like, is there a <em>wall<\/em>?\u201d my son <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2020\/06\/15\/kids-asking-deep-questions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Anton<\/a> asked me when he was five. Author <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sarahmanguso.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sarah Manguso<\/a> and cartoonist <a href=\"https:\/\/lianafinck.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Liana Finck<\/a> found themselves drawn to this type of childlike curiosity, so they gathered thousands of questions from kids (including their own) and illustrated their favorites in a beautiful book, <a href=\"https:\/\/shareasale.com\/r.cfm?b=1535322&amp;u=1144210&amp;m=97137&amp;urllink=bookshop%2Eorg%2Fp%2Fbooks%2Fquestions%2Dwithout%2Danswers%2Dsarah%2Dmanguso%2F21689650&amp;afftrack=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Questions Without Answers<\/a>. Here are a few pages, plus a Q&amp;A with the authors\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"1\" data-article-image-position2=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2025\/04\/28\/questions-without-answers-sarah-manguso-liana-finck\/screenshot-166\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-337075\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Dinosaurs.jpg\" alt=\"Questions Without Answers by Sarah Manguso and Liana Finck\" width=\"650\" height=\"650\" class=\"size-full wp-image-337075\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Dinosaurs.jpg 650w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Dinosaurs-483x483.jpg 483w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Dinosaurs-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Dinosaurs-120x120.jpg 120w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\"\/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"2\" data-article-image-position2=\"2\" data-article-image-continuo=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2025\/04\/28\/questions-without-answers-sarah-manguso-liana-finck\/screenshot-167\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-337076\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Why-am-I-crying.jpg\" alt=\"Questions Without Answers by Sarah Manguso and Liana Finck\" width=\"654\" height=\"654\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-337076\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Why-am-I-crying.jpg 654w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Why-am-I-crying-483x483.jpg 483w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Why-am-I-crying-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Why-am-I-crying-120x120.jpg 120w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 654px) 100vw, 654px\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"3\" data-article-image-position2=\"3\" data-article-image-continuo=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2025\/04\/28\/questions-without-answers-sarah-manguso-liana-finck\/screenshot-168\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-337077\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/horses-in-war.jpg\" alt=\"Questions Without Answers by Sarah Manguso and Liana Finck\" width=\"656\" height=\"656\" class=\"size-full wp-image-337077\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/horses-in-war.jpg 656w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/horses-in-war-483x483.jpg 483w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/horses-in-war-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/horses-in-war-120x120.jpg 120w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 656px) 100vw, 656px\"\/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"4\" data-article-image-position2=\"4\" data-article-image-continuo=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2025\/04\/28\/questions-without-answers-sarah-manguso-liana-finck\/screenshot-169\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-337078\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/How-to-be-your-own-friend.jpg\" alt=\"Questions Without Answers by Sarah Manguso and Liana Finck\" width=\"658\" height=\"658\" class=\"size-full wp-image-337078\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/How-to-be-your-own-friend.jpg 658w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/How-to-be-your-own-friend-483x483.jpg 483w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/How-to-be-your-own-friend-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/How-to-be-your-own-friend-120x120.jpg 120w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 658px) 100vw, 658px\"\/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"5\" data-article-image-position2=\"5\" data-article-image-continuo=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2025\/04\/28\/questions-without-answers-sarah-manguso-liana-finck\/screenshot-170\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-337079\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Can-I-come-with-you.jpg\" alt=\"Questions Without Answers by Sarah Manguso and Liana Finck\" width=\"656\" height=\"656\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-337079\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Can-I-come-with-you.jpg 656w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Can-I-come-with-you-483x483.jpg 483w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Can-I-come-with-you-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Can-I-come-with-you-120x120.jpg 120w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 656px) 100vw, 656px\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Joanna: Was it hard to narrow down the list of questions for the book? I remember my sons asking <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2020\/06\/15\/kids-asking-deep-questions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">so many<\/a>, like, \u2018Do you have to pay the bank to get money?\u2019 and \u2018Why can\u2019t I see my eyes?!\u2019 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sarah:<\/strong> Certain juxtapositions make individual questions seem goofier or more bittersweet. A kid will ask you if clowns pee blue, right after they ask you when you\u2019re going to die. My favorites in our book include, \u2018Was mom a baby once, too? Did I play with her?\u2019<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liana:<\/strong> Here are the latest from the list I keep on my phone of questions my three-year-old has asked: <em>Do you get a lollipop when you get out of jail? Who put the mustache on your face? What color is it inside you? Why do squirrels usually not talk? Do older babies drink apple juice out of their mommies?<\/em> There are so many more. I\u2019m refraining.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I loved the book\u2019s introduction about how kids are brilliant observers. Sarah, you wrote, \u2018I learned that children are dizzyingly fast-learning engines of art and experiment. I watched my child make sense of the world not as a simple-minded cherub but as a measuring, remembering machine.\u2019 What helped you come to this realization?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sarah:<\/strong> I liked articulating why these questions fascinate me \u2014 in a nutshell, it\u2019s that kids are hardworking empiricists. When he was four, my son asked me three questions all at once: <em>When I was in your body, did you know me? Was I excited to meet you? Did I make the world?<\/em> All three made it into the book, in order.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liana:<\/strong> Sarah\u2019s intro is like a strong blue shadow behind the questions in the book.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I teared up while reading the book, especially at the question, \u2018When you die, can I come with you?\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sarah:<\/strong> Many of the questions move me deeply. For me, a reliable tearjerker is, \u2018After they bury you, when do they come back and dig you out again?\u2019<\/p>\n<p><strong>I remember at <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2023\/04\/24\/cornwall-england-funeral\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">my grandmother\u2019s funeral<\/a>, the vicar said, \u2018Now your grandmother will be with your grandfather in the graveyard, or wherever they are in the great mystery.\u2019 I loved that phrasing \u2014 so much of life is mysterious, no matter how old we are.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sarah:<\/strong> That vicar understood that kids don\u2019t need to be protected from the great mystery. I remember asking my mother where babies came from, but all I remember of her answer is: You have to have a special kind of egg. For years, I wondered what sort of egg I\u2019d have to eat and if I might eat it by accident.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liana:<\/strong> All I can remember today is that rather than making me less afraid of monsters, the Sesame Street characters all morphed into truly terrifying monsters in my imagination.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What are some other children\u2019s books you like?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Liana:<\/strong> The ones I grew up with, by <a href=\"https:\/\/shareasale.com\/r.cfm?b=1535322&amp;u=1144210&amp;m=97137&amp;urllink=bookshop%2Eorg%2Fbeta%2Dsearch%3Fkeywords%3DWilliam%2BSteig&amp;afftrack=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">William Steig<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/shareasale.com\/r.cfm?b=1535322&amp;u=1144210&amp;m=97137&amp;urllink=bookshop%2Eorg%2Fbeta%2Dsearch%3Fkeywords%3DMaurice%2BSendak&amp;afftrack=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Maurice Sendak<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/shareasale.com\/r.cfm?b=1535322&amp;u=1144210&amp;m=97137&amp;urllink=bookshop%2Eorg%2Fbeta%2Dsearch%3Fkeywords%3DRuth%2BKrauss&amp;afftrack=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ruth Krauss<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/shareasale.com\/r.cfm?b=1535322&amp;u=1144210&amp;m=97137&amp;urllink=bookshop%2Eorg%2Fbeta%2Dsearch%3Fkeywords%3DMaira%2BKalman&amp;afftrack=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Maira Kalman<\/a>, because they are (1) mind-blowing and (2) so deep in there for me. Two new discoveries, both cosmic, are: <a href=\"https:\/\/shareasale.com\/r.cfm?b=1535322&amp;u=1144210&amp;m=97137&amp;urllink=bookshop%2Eorg%2Fp%2Fbooks%2Ftime%2Dis%2Da%2Dflower%2Djulie%2Dmorstad%2F16247341%3Fean%3D9780735267541%26next%3Dt&amp;afftrack=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Time is a Flower<\/a> by Julie Morstad, and <a href=\"https:\/\/shareasale.com\/r.cfm?b=1535322&amp;u=1144210&amp;m=97137&amp;urllink=bookshop%2Eorg%2Fp%2Fbooks%2Fhere%2Dwe%2Dare%2Dnotes%2Dfor%2Dliving%2Don%2Dplanet%2Dearth%2Doliver%2Djeffers%2F9762329%3Fean%3D9780399167898%26next%3Dt&amp;afftrack=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Here We Are<\/a> by Oliver Jeffers. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Sarah:<\/strong> I love Syd Hoff\u2019s book <a href=\"https:\/\/shareasale.com\/r.cfm?b=1535322&amp;u=1144210&amp;m=97137&amp;urllink=bookshop%2Eorg%2Fp%2Fbooks%2Fthe%2Dhorse%2Din%2Dharry%2Ds%2Droom%2Dsyd%2Dhoff%2F7885390%3Fean%3D9780064440738%26next%3Dt&amp;afftrack=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Horse in Harry\u2019s Room<\/a>. Harry tells the class about his imaginary horse during show-and-tell, and the other kids laugh at him. Then the teacher says, \u2018Sometimes thinking about a thing is the same as having it.\u2019 For smaller kids, I love Margaret Wise Brown\u2019s book <a href=\"https:\/\/shareasale.com\/r.cfm?b=1535322&amp;u=1144210&amp;m=97137&amp;urllink=bookshop%2Eorg%2Fp%2Fbooks%2Fi%2Dlike%2Dstars%2Dmargaret%2Dwise%2Dbrown%2F8710581%3Fean%3D9780307261052%26next%3Dt&amp;afftrack=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">I Like Stars<\/a>, which isn\u2019t nearly as popular as her blockbusters <a href=\"https:\/\/shareasale.com\/r.cfm?b=1535322&amp;u=1144210&amp;m=97137&amp;urllink=bookshop%2Eorg%2Fp%2Fbooks%2Fgoodnight%2Dmoon%2Dmargaret%2Dwise%2Dbrown%2F15026812%3Fean%3D9780694003617%26next%3Dt&amp;afftrack=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Goodnight Moon<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/shareasale.com\/r.cfm?b=1535322&amp;u=1144210&amp;m=97137&amp;urllink=bookshop%2Eorg%2Fp%2Fbooks%2Fthe%2Drunaway%2Dbunny%2Dboard%2Dbook%2Dmargaret%2Dwise%2Dbrown%2F7307951%3Fean%3D9780061074295%26next%3Dt&amp;afftrack=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Runaway Bunny<\/a>. Reading this book \u2014 especially if you\u2019re sleep deprived, as most new parents are \u2014 is a psychedelic experience.<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"6\" data-article-image-position2=\"6\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Screenshot-2025-04-28-at-12.52.45%E2%80%AFPM.png\" alt=\"Questions Without Answers by Sarah Manguso and Liana Finck\" width=\"782\" height=\"1138\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-337029\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Screenshot-2025-04-28-at-12.52.45\u202fPM.png 782w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Screenshot-2025-04-28-at-12.52.45\u202fPM-332x483.png 332w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Screenshot-2025-04-28-at-12.52.45\u202fPM-680x990.png 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Screenshot-2025-04-28-at-12.52.45\u202fPM-768x1118.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 782px) 100vw, 782px\"\/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Thank you, Sarah and Liana! <a href=\"https:\/\/shareasale.com\/r.cfm?b=1535322&amp;u=1144210&amp;m=97137&amp;urllink=bookshop%2Eorg%2Fp%2Fbooks%2Fquestions%2Dwithout%2Danswers%2Dsarah%2Dmanguso%2F21689650&amp;afftrack=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Questions Without Answers<\/a> is beautiful.<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>P.S. <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2021\/10\/11\/purity-culture\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sex-positive parenting for prudes<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2023\/01\/23\/five-childrens-books-on-grief\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">five children\u2019s books on grief<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>(Photo by Alfred Eisenstaedt, 1963, taken at a Parisian puppet theatre at the moment that St. George slays the dragon.)<\/p>\n<section class=\"article-meta aside-meta\">\n<p>\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2025\/04\/28\/questions-without-answers-sarah-manguso-liana-finck\/#comments\"><\/p>\n<p><span>59<\/span> COMMENTS<\/p>\n<p><\/a><\/p>\n<\/section><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2025\/04\/28\/questions-without-answers-sarah-manguso-liana-finck\/\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cDoes the universe end? 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