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What are you up to this weekend? I\u2019m looking forward to spending time with my sister Lucy<\/a> and remembering her late husband Paul<\/a>; this Sunday is the 10th anniversary of his death, and we all miss him. Hope you have a good one,\u00a0and here are a few links from around the web\u2026<\/p>\n Ruth Reichl\u2019s out-of-control diva of a grilled cheese sandwich<\/a>.<\/p>\n How do you know if it\u2019s time to get divorced<\/a>? I struggled with this question so much in my own marriage; this week we put together the kind of post I would have loved to read during that disorienting time. Here, 11 women share how they decided to end their marriages<\/a>. (Big Salad)<\/p>\n Which book should you read next<\/a>? Answer four questions, and they\u2019ll give you the answer. (NYTimes gift link) <\/p>\n Love this pretty sweater<\/a> to wear all year round.<\/p>\n \u201cI took my work outside every day for a month this winter<\/a>\u2026 Even though I\u2019m not perfectly warm, it lifts my mood to be outside. I can hear the community of songbirds holding their morning conferences, a barking dog\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n This couple lives in a very cool former one-room schoolhouse<\/a>. (NYTimes gift link)<\/p>\n Should we all become friends with Aimee Lou Wood<\/a>? She\u2019s seems so fun and funny. When the cast would hang out during breaks, she \u201cbecame known among her castmates as \u2018the fox\u2019 who would \u2018come out for some scraps and then go back inside\u2019\u2026 when Patrick Schwarzenegger \u2014 who plays the pervy, arrogant Saxon Ratliff \u2014 would beg her to hang out. \u2018I\u2019d be like, \u201cI need to go into my cave,\u201d\u2018 Wood says, laughing. \u2018What have you been doing in there?\u2019 he\u2019d ask. She would retort, sardonically, \u2018Just having loads of realizations and epiphanies about myself, life, and the world, and stewing in them.’\u201d (The Cut)<\/p>\n Doesn\u2019t this photo make you want to head straight to the restaurant<\/a>? Wait until it moves! (NYMag)<\/p>\n Ali Milne<\/a> asked people what random things they do \u201cto feel more whimsical.\u201d A few fun replies: \u201cI say \u2018my lady\u2019 whenever I walk past a mirror,\u201d \u201clistening to French music while I grocery shop makes it feel more romantic and less mundane,\u201d and \u201cI tell my dishes it\u2019s bath time.\u201d Adds Pandora Sykes<\/a>, \u201cTo offset how much I hate mornings, I do a half cartwheel out of the bed and finish like I\u2019m in the Olympics.\u201d<\/p>\n A practical guide to breaking up with Amazon<\/a>.<\/p>\n \u201cIt is in your self-interest to find a way to be very tender<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n Made me laugh out loud<\/a>.<\/p>\n Plus, two reader comments:<\/p>\n