{"id":90081,"date":"2025-01-24T01:12:54","date_gmt":"2025-01-24T01:12:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/2025\/01\/24\/a-funny-relationship-question-cup-of-jo\/"},"modified":"2025-01-24T01:12:54","modified_gmt":"2025-01-24T01:12:54","slug":"a-funny-relationship-question-cup-of-jo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/2025\/01\/24\/a-funny-relationship-question-cup-of-jo\/","title":{"rendered":"A Funny Relationship Question | Cup of Jo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"hero-image hero-image-main hero-image-main_1 hero-bleed \"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/harry-sally-surrey.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"454\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-331185\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/harry-sally-surrey.jpeg 750w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/harry-sally-surrey-725x439.jpeg 725w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/harry-sally-surrey-680x412.jpeg 680w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\"\/><\/div>\n<p data-image-hide=\"1\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/harry-sally-surrey.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"454\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-331185\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/harry-sally-surrey.jpeg 750w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/harry-sally-surrey-725x439.jpeg 725w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/harry-sally-surrey-680x412.jpeg 680w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>When I met <a href=\"https:\/\/joannagoddard.substack.com\/t\/freddie\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Freddie<\/a> this past fall\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2026and he gave me his number, I entered him into my phone as \u201cFreddie Sopranos.\u201d His Hinge profile had mentioned not once, but twice, how much he loved the HBO show. I\u2019d never seen it, so I started watching, curious to find out what all the fuss was about <em>and<\/em> to get to know Freddie better. I wanted to know what made him laugh, what made him think.<\/p>\n<p data-bleed=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"1\" data-article-image-position1=\"1\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"sopranos Tony mom\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1920\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-331194\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-644x483.jpg 644w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-680x510.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-1272x954.jpg 1272w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\"\/><\/p>\n<p data-bleed=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"2\" data-article-image-position1=\"2\" data-article-image-continuo=\"1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-mom-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"sopranos Tony mom\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1920\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-331193\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-mom-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-mom-644x483.jpg 644w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-mom-680x510.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-mom-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-mom-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-mom-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/sopranos-mom-1272x954.jpg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\"\/><\/p>\n<p data-bleed=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"3\" data-article-image-position1=\"3\" data-article-image-continuo=\"1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/macaroons-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"sopranos\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1920\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-331195\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/macaroons-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/macaroons-644x483.jpg 644w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/macaroons-680x510.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/macaroons-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/macaroons-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/macaroons-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/macaroons-1272x954.jpg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>So much of what we love \u2014 the books, the movies, the sports, the hobbies, the people, the pets, the sandwiches, you name it \u2014\u00a0reflect us and our senses of humor, passions, sometimes even worldviews, don\u2019t you think? All those trappings are such a fun part of getting to know someone.<\/p>\n<p>For me, I\u2019m always curious to see if a guy will find <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/40zYpWa\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">When Harry Met Sally<\/a> as funny and timeless as I do,\u00a0or whether he\u2019ll dismiss a rom-com with a laugh and eye roll. The book <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2020\/09\/08\/what-are-your-top-three-books\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Olive Kitteridge<\/a> brought me to my knees \u2014\u00a0the way people\u2019s lives are portrayed with such nuance and empathy, no detail too trivial \u2014 and I wonder, will a potential partner relate to that approach? Also, cheese, haha. I mean, you don\u2019t <em>have<\/em> to eat cheese, but it helps.<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"4\" data-article-image-position2=\"4\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/joanna-freddie-1-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1920\" height=\"2560\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-331181\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/joanna-freddie-1-scaled.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/joanna-freddie-1-362x483.jpg 362w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/joanna-freddie-1-680x907.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/joanna-freddie-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/joanna-freddie-1-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/joanna-freddie-1-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/joanna-freddie-1-1272x1696.jpg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\"\/><\/p>\n<p><em>Me and Freddie Sopranos<\/em><\/p>\n<p>So, tell me: When dating, what books\/movies\/music do you like to show a new partner? What feels important to you or even representative of you? I\u2019d love to hear\u2026<\/p>\n<p>P.S. <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2024\/09\/18\/my-1-dating-rule\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">My #1 dating rule<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2014\/10\/23\/my-sisters-awesome-dating-tip\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">my sister\u2019s dating tip<\/a>.<\/p>\n<section class=\"article-meta aside-meta\">\n<p>\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2025\/01\/23\/a-funny-relationship-question\/#comments\"><\/p>\n<p><span>184<\/span> COMMENTS<\/p>\n<p><\/a><\/p>\n<\/section><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2025\/01\/23\/a-funny-relationship-question\/\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I met Freddie this past fall\u2026 \u2026and he gave me his number, I entered him into my phone as \u201cFreddie Sopranos.\u201d His Hinge profile<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":90082,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[162],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-90081","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90081","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=90081"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90081\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/90082"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=90081"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=90081"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=90081"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}