{"id":110673,"date":"2026-06-05T11:31:54","date_gmt":"2026-06-05T11:31:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/2026\/06\/05\/our-holy-grail-hair-products\/"},"modified":"2026-06-05T11:31:54","modified_gmt":"2026-06-05T11:31:54","slug":"our-holy-grail-hair-products","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/2026\/06\/05\/our-holy-grail-hair-products\/","title":{"rendered":"Our Holy Grail Hair Products"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"hero-image hero-image-main hero-image-main_1 hero-bleed \"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3.jpg\" alt=\"Our Holy Grail Hair Products\" width=\"2280\" height=\"1380\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-360928\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3.jpg 2280w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3-725x439.jpg 725w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3-680x412.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3-768x465.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3-1536x930.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3-2048x1240.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3-1272x770.jpg 1272w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2280px) 100vw, 2280px\"\/><\/div>\n<p data-image-hide=\"1\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3.jpg\" alt=\"Our Holy Grail Hair Products\" width=\"2280\" height=\"1380\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-360928\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3.jpg 2280w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3-725x439.jpg 725w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3-680x412.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3-768x465.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3-1536x930.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3-2048x1240.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-v3-1272x770.jpg 1272w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2280px) 100vw, 2280px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Last month, our team shared our <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2026\/04\/16\/what-are-your-holy-grail-skincare-products\/\" target=\"_blank\">skincare routines<\/a>. (It was SUCH a treat hearing readers\u2019 recs in the comments, too; I screenshotted all the lip balm suggestions!) Today, we decided to do the same for hair: our daily routines, our favorite products, and the little tricks we\u2019ve learned along the way. Here goes\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-bleed=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"1\" data-article-image-position1=\"1\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-11.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1520\" height=\"920\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-360960\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-11.jpg 1520w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-11-725x439.jpg 725w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-11-680x412.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-11-768x465.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-11-1272x770.jpg 1272w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1520px) 100vw, 1520px\"\/><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2026\/02\/24\/alison-piepmeyer-house-tour-brooklyn-brownstone\/\" target=\"_blank\">Alison Piepmeyer<\/a>, Partnerships Director<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>How would you describe your hair?<\/strong><br \/>My hair is one of the things <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2025\/04\/03\/what-do-you-like-about-the-way-you-look\/\" target=\"_blank\">I really like about myself<\/a>. It\u2019s wavy\/curly with lots of texture. It usually cooperates with <a href=\"https:\/\/joannagoddard.substack.com\/p\/best-haircuts-bobs-gray-hair\" target=\"_blank\">whatever look<\/a> I\u2019m trying to pull off, which I appreciate!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tell us about a typical morning.<\/strong><br \/>Depends on my mood and energy level. Sometimes I\u2019ll do a full\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CtHDEXOtIZ4\/\" target=\"_blank\">curly-girl routine<\/a>\u00a0(with\u00a0a <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61179221\" target=\"_blank\">microfiber towel<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61178069\" target=\"_blank\">mousse<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61178205\" target=\"_blank\">defining cream<\/a>, and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61179404\" target=\"_blank\">hair wrap<\/a>).\u00a0But that takes a while. So, I usually let it air dry into loose waves \u2014 that way I can stretch washes longer, along with <a href=\"https:\/\/nordstrom.sjv.io\/qWZ3GL\" target=\"_blank\">dry shampoo<\/a>. I used to part it down the middle, but lately I\u2019ve been copying\u00a0Natasha Pickowicz\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2026\/03\/10\/natasha-pickowicz-hair-products\" target=\"_blank\">half-up style<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What kind of detangler do you use?<\/strong><br \/>I love the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-62355735\" target=\"_blank\">T3 paddle brush<\/a>\u00a0because the bristles are spaced far enough apart that they detangle my hair without ruining the curl pattern. (Curly hair can get\u00a0<em>very<\/em>\u00a0poofy very quickly.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s your wash routine?<\/strong><br \/>I wash my hair only once or twice a week, because curly hair gets dry so easily. I also color my hair, so less frequent washing makes the color last longer. I rotate between a few shampoos:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4dGLkR6\" target=\"_blank\">Nizoral<\/a> (for dandruff and hair-loss prevention), a\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/43O88tL\" target=\"_blank\">purple shampoo<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4g0UoTM\" target=\"_blank\">conditioner<\/a>\u00a0(when my blonde starts getting brassy), and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3SlUGL3\" target=\"_blank\">Odele\u00a0shampoo<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3SlUGL3\" target=\"_blank\">conditioner<\/a> for regular washes, because it\u2019s acne-safe (I have <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2026\/04\/16\/what-are-your-holy-grail-skincare-products\/\" target=\"_blank\">acne-prone skin<\/a>, and I\u2019m very strict about this!). <\/p>\n<p><strong>Air-dry or blow-dry?<\/strong><br \/>Mostly air-dry. If I\u2019m doing <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CtHDEXOtIZ4\/\" target=\"_blank\">the curly-girl method<\/a>, I\u2019ll diffuse it, but otherwise it dries into slightly chaotic waves that I\u2019ll clean up with <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-62362662\" target=\"_blank\">this straightener<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a favorite hair-styling trick?<\/strong><br \/>Following hairstylists on Instagram has taught me everything. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/streicherhair\/\" target=\"_blank\">Ashley Streicher<\/a> completely changed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/CaYBk8ljp_9\/\" target=\"_blank\">how I use a flat iron<\/a>.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/amberyackzan\/\" target=\"_blank\">Amber Yackzan<\/a>\u00a0has great styling tips for bobs.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/sophiemariegraf\" target=\"_blank\">Sophie Marie<\/a>\u00a0taught me <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CtHDEXOtIZ4\/\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cThe Bowl Method\u201d<\/a> for curly hair.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a nighttime hair routine?<\/strong><br \/>If my hair is curly, I\u2019ll sleep in <a href=\"https:\/\/nordstrom.sjv.io\/3kZ63v\" target=\"_blank\">a\u00a0silk bonnet<\/a>\u00a0to help preserve the curls and prevent frizz. Otherwise, I throw it up in\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/nordstrom.sjv.io\/MKBG1P\" target=\"_blank\">a silk scrunchy<\/a>\u00a0and fix the waves in the morning.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a hero hair product?<\/strong><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/nordstrom.sjv.io\/qWZ3GL\" target=\"_blank\">Living Proof dry shampoo<\/a>\u00a0forever! I use it constantly, since I go a while between washes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Any other treatments?<\/strong><br \/>I have a lot of grays, and my hairstylist explained that blonde highlights are the easiest way to blend them naturally. The grow-out is softer, which means I can go much longer between salon visits.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s the biggest haircare lesson you\u2019ve learned?<\/strong><br \/>Do. Not. Cut. Bangs. I\u2019ve been laughing because all the online hair girlies are obsessed with\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/culture\/tv-shows\/who-is-mika-abdalla-off-campus-allie\/\" target=\"_blank\">Mika Abdalla\u2019s haircut<\/a>\u00a0on the new show\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4uLmmYc\" target=\"_blank\">Off Campus<\/a>. But\u00a0thank god for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DYazT6QN4j0\/\" target=\"_blank\">PSAs like this<\/a>,\u00a0you\u2019re doing the Lord\u2019s work.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-bleed=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"2\" data-article-image-position1=\"2\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-1-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1549\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-360962\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-1-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-1-725x439.jpg 725w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-1-680x412.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-1-768x465.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-1-1536x930.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-1-2048x1240.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-1-599x361.jpg 599w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-1-1272x770.jpg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\"\/><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/author\/christinepride\/\" target=\"_blank\">Christine Pride<\/a>, Columnist<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>How would you describe your hair?<\/strong><br \/>Long and thick. Also: reliable. I\u2019ve had the same simple hair \u201cstyle\u201d (if you can call it that) for decades, and though sometimes I want to chop it all off, I\u2019ll take my steady, familiar hairdo over novelty. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a go-to style?<\/strong><br \/>I have <em>exactly<\/em> two hair looks: a top knot\/bun (80% of the time), or blown out waves (20% of the time).\u00a0Maybe \u2014 MAYBE \u2014 you\u2019ll catch me with a side braid, if I\u2019m feeling wild.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What kind of brush do you use?<\/strong><br \/>My hair tangles easily, so I use <a href=\"https:\/\/nordstrom.sjv.io\/WORazA\" target=\"_blank\">this Tangle Teezer brush<\/a>, which is good for gently working out snarls and smoothing my hair out.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What does your wash routine look like?<\/strong><br \/>Boring and low-maintenance:\u00a0I use <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4dRzy6y\" target=\"_blank\">TRESemm\u00e9\u00a0Curl Shampoo and Conditioner<\/a>, then slap on <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4fNSPZf\" target=\"_blank\">Nourish &amp; Shine<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61192022\" target=\"_blank\">Ouidad Leave-In Conditioner<\/a>\u00a0for extra moisture.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Air-dry or blow-dry?<\/strong><br \/>Blowing it dry myself takes 193 hours. So, if I want a really good blowout, I go to <a href=\"https:\/\/blomedry.com\" target=\"_blank\">Blo Bar<\/a>. Their blowouts last me five precious days.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a before-bed hair routine?<\/strong><br \/>If my\u00a0hair has been blown out, I sleep with it in a bun in <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/49uksTk\" target=\"_blank\">this blue bonnet<\/a> \u2014 it\u2019s very sexy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a hero hair tool?<\/strong><br \/>I tried the <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61193701\" target=\"_blank\">Rev Air<\/a>\u00a0for a hot second. It\u2019s basically a vacuum\u00a0meets a blow dryer. But it didn\u2019t give me dramatic results, despite the amazing before-and-after photos all over the internet. Not a hero product, but I thought it worth mentioning, because there\u2019s a lot of hype around this thing! <\/p>\n<p><strong>Any other treatments you regularly do?<\/strong><br \/>I get my hair chemically straightened\u00a0four times a year, like clockwork. And now I\u2019ve added a color rinse to the routine, to cover grays. I can\u2019t do these treatments at the same time, so it makes for eight annual visits to the salon! (Shout out <a href=\"https:\/\/www.beautybarnyc.co\/\" target=\"_blank\">Beauty Bar<\/a> in Harlem.)\u00a0At home, I try to use <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61194211\" target=\"_blank\">this deep conditioner<\/a> for 10 minutes, once a week, so my hair doesn\u2019t get too damaged from the aforementioned treatments.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s the biggest haircare lesson you\u2019ve learned?<\/strong><br \/>It\u2019s only hair.<\/p>\n<p data-bleed=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"3\" data-article-image-position1=\"3\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1520\" height=\"920\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-360961\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-3.jpg 1520w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-3-725x439.jpg 725w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-3-680x412.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-3-768x465.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-3-1272x770.jpg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1520px) 100vw, 1520px\"\/><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/author\/jannelle\/\" target=\"_blank\">Jannelle Sanchez<\/a>, Senior Editor<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>How would you describe your hair?<\/strong><br \/>Very full and very long. My hair also has a slight natural wave (for those who use hair charts, mine is 2b).<\/p>\n<p><strong>How do you do your hair in the morning?<\/strong><br \/>I wash my hair every three days. For the first two days, I\u2019ll wear my hair down and tousled. I\u2019ll comb out any tangles, smooth frizzy bits with <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61194658\" target=\"_blank\">my straightener<\/a>, and leave the rest untouched so the waves stay intact. Three days post-wash, my hair is oilier, so I comb it out and pull it into a sleek, middle-part ponytail. I\u2019ll top it off with a layer of <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-62409805\" target=\"_blank\">hairspray<\/a>. The smell always makes me think of my grandma getting ready for work. <\/p>\n<p><strong>What kind of brush do you use?<\/strong><br \/>I\u2019ve been using the same <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61195476\" target=\"_blank\">wide paddle brush<\/a> for eight years!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tell us about your wash routine.<\/strong><br \/>For the past two years, I\u2019ve boughtthe jumbo pack of Nexxus Advanced Hydration <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61195901\" target=\"_blank\">Therappe Humectress Shampoo<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61196296\" target=\"_blank\">Conditioner<\/a> from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.costco.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Costco<\/a>, and it worked well. But just this week I tested out <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-62616740\" target=\"_blank\">Hairstory\u2019s Air Dry Kit<\/a>, and I was shocked by the results. I used the <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3QmGzVh\" target=\"_blank\">pre-wash<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4uR7pnB\" target=\"_blank\">cleansing cream<\/a>, and as soon as I looked in the mirror \u2014 my hair still soaking wet \u2014 I could see more defined waves. The next morning, my hair was super soft and looked extra voluminous.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Air-dry or blow-dry?<\/strong><br \/>Air dry. And for date nights or special occasions, I like to curl my hair with <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-62358097\" target=\"_blank\">this big curling iron<\/a>. I\u00a0love the glamorous look of barrel curls!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a favorite styling trick?<\/strong><br \/>When I was six, I was over at a friend\u2019s house when her mom mentioned that we should brush our hair before showering. And omg, <em>that<\/em> was life-changing! You know how hard it is to work shampoo into tangled wet hair?! Ever since that playdate, I\u2019ve brushed my hair first.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s your nighttime hair routine?<\/strong><br \/>Honestly? Nothing. With <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2026\/03\/16\/what-its-like-to-have-three-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\">three kids<\/a> under five, I\u2019m lucky to get my washes in!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a hero hair tool?<\/strong><br \/>A toothbrush!\u00a0I have lots of postpartum baby-hair bangs, so when I want sleek hair, I\u2019ll spray my roots with hairspray and then go over my hair with a toothbrush, smoothing down all the fly-aways and baby hairs. It works like magic.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s the biggest haircare lesson you\u2019ve learned?<\/strong><br \/>It took me 20 years to learn which hairstyles work with my face shape \u2014 and which I don\u2019t. I can rock <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2023\/01\/10\/new-years-short-haircut\/\" target=\"_blank\">a bob<\/a>. I can rock bangs. I can<em>not<\/em> rock a fully slicked back ponytail, or straightened hair with a middle part. Learning this has saved me from many crabby days and salon meltdowns. <\/p>\n<p data-bleed=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"4\" data-article-image-position1=\"4\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-1520-x-920-px.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1520\" height=\"920\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-360958\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-1520-x-920-px.jpg 1520w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-1520-x-920-px-725x439.jpg 725w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-1520-x-920-px-680x412.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-1520-x-920-px-768x465.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/collage-1520-x-920-px-1272x770.jpg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1520px) 100vw, 1520px\"\/><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/author\/joanna\/\" target=\"_blank\">Joanna Goddard<\/a>, Founder and Editor<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>How would you describe your hair?<\/strong><br \/>Straight and fine. And my grays are definitely coming in!<\/p>\n<p><strong>How do you do your hair on a typical morning?<\/strong><br \/>Wash, air-dry, and that\u2019s it. I used to blow it dry every single morning, and my hair would get damaged. Now that I\u2019m doing less with it, my hair feels softer and smoother.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What kind of brush\/comb do you use?<\/strong><br \/>I use <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-62356679\" target=\"_blank\">this comb<\/a> when my hair is wet. (I don\u2019t want a brush to break my hair.) But when it\u2019s dry, I use the <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-62356501\" target=\"_blank\">Mason Pearson brush<\/a> that my aunt gave me \u2014 it was <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2023\/04\/24\/cornwall-england-funeral\/\" target=\"_blank\">my English grandmother\u2019s<\/a>, and I remember seeing it on her bedside table during my whole childhood. Hair stylists always say how amazing <a href=\"https:\/\/www.allure.com\/story\/mason-pearson-hairbrush-history\" target=\"_blank\">boar bristles<\/a> are for your hair \u2014 and I do as I\u2019m told. <\/p>\n<p><strong>What does your wash routine look like?<\/strong><br \/>I wash my hair every day (I know!). I use <a href=\"https:\/\/nordstrom.sjv.io\/7Xork3\" target=\"_blank\">R\u00d4Z shampoo<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/nordstrom.sjv.io\/QY4rgY\" target=\"_blank\">conditioner<\/a>, and then I comb <a href=\"https:\/\/nordstrom.sjv.io\/xJQ3Pk\" target=\"_blank\">R\u00d4Z milk hair serum<\/a> through my damp hair (I\u2019m very brand-loyal when it comes to their hair stuff). I\u2019ll scrunch it in my hand, while it\u2019s drying, which gives me a bit of a bed-head wave.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a favorite styling trick?<\/strong><br \/>No, I\u2019m useless! But if I take an overnight flight, I\u2019ll bring a baseball cap for the next morning \u2014 it makes me feel like an actress in the airport to have a baseball cap over my greasy hair.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a nighttime\/before-bed hair routine?<\/strong><br \/>Honestly, I just read my book and pass out. Right now I\u2019m reading <a href=\"https:\/\/tidd.ly\/4u3rEgu\" target=\"_blank\">It\u2019s a Lot<\/a> by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/alisonleiby\" target=\"_blank\">Alison Leiby<\/a>, which is so great \u2014 she wrote a big chapter on <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2026\/05\/04\/being-an-only-child-what-its-like\/\" target=\"_blank\">being an only child<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Any other treatments you regularly do?<\/strong><br \/>I get my hair cut by my friend <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reagan.baker_\" target=\"_blank\">Reagan Baker<\/a> \u2014 named after Ronald Reagan, like the \u201980s kid she is. Her haircuts are a splurge, but they fall so beautifully without any styling, and they grow out so well that I only need to get two a year. Then I get my grays covered by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/hair.byaliya\/\" target=\"_blank\">Aliya<\/a> at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/foxandjane\/\" target=\"_blank\">Fox &amp; Jane<\/a> in Brooklyn. She\u2019s young but super talented.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s the biggest haircare lesson you\u2019ve learned?<\/strong><br \/>For me, less is more. My hair is so much healthier now that I mostly leave it alone.<\/p>\n<p data-bleed=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"5\" data-article-image-position1=\"5\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/pink-collage-5.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1520\" height=\"920\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-360957\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/pink-collage-5.jpg 1520w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/pink-collage-5-725x439.jpg 725w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/pink-collage-5-680x412.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/pink-collage-5-768x465.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/pink-collage-5-1272x770.jpg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1520px) 100vw, 1520px\"\/><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/joannagoddard.substack.com\" target=\"_blank\">Kaitlyn Teer<\/a>, Senior Editor<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>How would you describe your hair?<\/strong><br \/>Thick and wavy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a go-to style?<\/strong><br \/>I have a razor-cut shag with thick bangs (I go to a stylist who specializes in razor cuts, like the ones made popular by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/jayne_edosalon\" target=\"_blank\">Edo Salon<\/a>). The cut works really well with my wavy texture and means I don\u2019t have to do any additional styling. I can just wash and air-dry!<\/p>\n<p><strong>What kind of brush\/comb do you use?<\/strong><br \/>I brush out my waves before showering, and afterward I use <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-62356679\" target=\"_blank\">a wide-tooth comb<\/a> on damp hair.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What does your wash routine look like?<\/strong><br \/>I\u2019ve used Hairstory\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4x9ppeh\" target=\"_blank\">New Wash<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4epwTCw\" target=\"_blank\">Hair Balm<\/a> for years. I also use an <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-62407915\" target=\"_blank\">anti-dandruff shampoo<\/a> once a month, to keep my scalp healthy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a favorite styling hack?<\/strong><br \/>I apply <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61206881\" target=\"_blank\">Hair Balm<\/a> while my hair is still dripping wet, to lock in moisture (a tip I got from <a href=\"https:\/\/joannagoddard.substack.com\/p\/samin-nosrat-favorite-things\" target=\"_blank\">Samin Nosrat<\/a>). It reduces frizz and makes my waves look defined.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a nighttime hair routine?<\/strong><br \/>I always sleep in a messy bun, with my bangs pinned back \u2014 I can\u2019t stand the feeling of hair on my face when I\u2019m sleeping! On a typical morning, I shake out my bun and smooth out my bangs. If I\u2019ve got some real bedhead, I\u2019ll wet my bangs for a fresh start. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a hero tool?<\/strong><br \/>My stylist encouraged me to get my own <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-62361583\" target=\"_blank\">feather-styling razor<\/a> so I could trim my bangs at home whenever I got the urge! I\u2019m always taking off a little here, a little there, to keep them on point.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s the biggest haircare lesson you\u2019ve learned?<\/strong><br \/>I\u2019ve learned never to put my trust in an inspiration photo! Never! It led to so much heartbreak when I was younger. Now, if I\u2019m looking to change things up, I bring in like <em>10<\/em> reference photos to communicate the vibe I\u2019m going for. But I\u2019ve also come to accept that my hair is always going to look like my hair, not anyone else\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p data-bleed=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"6\" data-article-image-position1=\"6\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-15.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1520\" height=\"920\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-360959\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-15.jpg 1520w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-15-725x439.jpg 725w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-15-680x412.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-15-768x465.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Copy-of-collage-1520-x-920-px-15-1272x770.jpg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1520px) 100vw, 1520px\"\/><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/author\/kelsey\/\" target=\"_blank\">Kelsey Miller<\/a>, Senior Editor<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>How would you describe your hair?<\/strong><br \/>Super-fine, but a ton of it. It\u2019s silky, which is nice, but I\u2019m often trying to rough it up a bit to create a little texture. <\/p>\n<p><strong>How do you do your hair on a typical morning?<\/strong><br \/>Most days, I just rake out the tangles and go, then I almost always wind up in a ponytail by 11 a.m. I genuinely love my hair, but having it around my face distracts me! Even on <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2019\/02\/20\/do-you-need-bridesmaids\/\" target=\"_blank\">my wedding day<\/a>, our photographer had to kindly remind me to stop tucking my hair behind my ears. <\/p>\n<p><strong>What kind of brush\/comb do you use?<\/strong><br \/>I am obsessed with the <a href=\"https:\/\/nordstrom.sjv.io\/gRgK0g\" target=\"_blank\">UNBrush detangling brush<\/a>. I initially bought it for my daughter, who has curly hair. I thought $18 was a little steep for a plastic brush, but the reviews were incredible \u2014 and frankly, I\u2019d have paid anything for a brush if you told me it would make bedtime brushing less scream-y. Let me tell you, that $18 piece of plastic lived up to the hype! And it\u2019s just as incredible on my heap of fine hair. It takes care of tangles without ripping. It\u2019s the only brush I\u2019ll use on either of us now. <\/p>\n<p><strong>What does your wash routine look like?<\/strong><br \/>I\u2019m a wash-every-day person, like Joanna (I also know!). I shower at night, and for the last couple years, I\u2019ve used <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4nUpNt9\" target=\"_blank\">Herbal Essences Grapefruit Volume Shampoo<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61208324\" target=\"_blank\">Conditioner<\/a>. It rinses clean and conditions very well, but it doesn\u2019t add weight or residue. I\u2019m a lifelong drugstore-shampoo advocate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a favorite hair-styling trick or hack?<\/strong><br \/>I just learned <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@kkkrrriista\/video\/7323532203537730821\" target=\"_blank\">this hair-tuck trick<\/a> on TikTok, and I wish someone had shown me it years ago. It\u2019s the one thing that actually does allow me to keep my hair down without feeling the constant urge to tuck it behind my ears or pull it into a ponytail.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a before-bed hair routine?<\/strong><br \/>I have an extremely glamorous sleep-on-totally-wet-hair method. If I do manage to let my hair dry before going to sleep, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DHgkjt0sebj\/\" target=\"_blank\">pineapple-bun method<\/a> is great. As a kid, I\u2019d braid my hair to prevent tangles, but this is even better. Also, I\u2019m a side-sleeper, and it genuinely makes sleeping more comfortable. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have a hero hair product or tool?<\/strong><br \/>For the past decade, <a href=\"https:\/\/goto.quince.com\/xJ5V4R\" target=\"_blank\">Iles Formula Finishing Hair Serum<\/a> has been the only styling product I use. I rub a tiny dollop between my hands, then finger-comb it through the bottom half of my hair. It\u2019s the one product that actually smooths without overwhelming my fine hair and creating greasy-looking clumps. It\u2019s definitely my most expensive hair product, but the bottle lasts me around two years. My other hero is <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4uzLBN1\" target=\"_blank\">toddler hair ties<\/a>, which are made of magic sweatshirt-esque fabric and are soooo gentle on your hair.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Any other treatments?<\/strong><br \/>I get a haircut once a year, and that\u2019s all she wrote. I don\u2019t have the patience for salon hair coloring, but I do love to mess around with tinted conditioners at home. The <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-61206415\" target=\"_blank\">Christophe Robin copper conditioner<\/a> is sooooo pretty and easy (on my hair, it just adds a little warmth). It\u2019s the most user-friendly type I\u2019ve tried \u2014 meaning, it doesn\u2019t leave neon stains on my skin when I inevitably smear it on my forehead.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s the biggest haircare lesson you\u2019ve learned?<\/strong><br \/>YOLO. Get the cut, try the perm, do that Angela Chase dye job your inner child\u2019s been pining for. Hair is never permanent (nothing is, right?), so why the heck not? <\/p>\n<p><strong>How do you like to do your <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/category\/style\/hair-tutorial\/\" target=\"_blank\">hair<\/a> these days? Any tricks or products you swear by?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>P.S. <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2024\/03\/05\/women-with-gray-hair-photos\/\" target=\"_blank\">Nine women on going gray<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2024\/09\/26\/how-to-use-french-pin\/\" target=\"_blank\">a super-easy hair trend (that\u2019s great for summer heat too)<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><em>Note: If you buy something through our links, we may earn an affiliate commission or have a sponsored relationship with the brand, at no cost to you. We recommend only products we genuinely like. 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