{"id":108089,"date":"2026-04-06T10:23:37","date_gmt":"2026-04-06T10:23:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/06\/our-trip-to-san-francisco\/"},"modified":"2026-04-06T10:23:37","modified_gmt":"2026-04-06T10:23:37","slug":"our-trip-to-san-francisco","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/neclink.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/06\/our-trip-to-san-francisco\/","title":{"rendered":"Our Trip to San Francisco"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"hero-image hero-image-main hero-image-main_1 hero-bleed \"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069.jpeg\" alt=\"toby sutro baths\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1536\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355878\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069-644x483.jpeg 644w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069-680x510.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069-1272x954.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\"\/><\/div>\n<p data-image-hide=\"1\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069.jpeg\" alt=\"toby sutro baths\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1536\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355878\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069-644x483.jpeg 644w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069-680x510.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0069-1272x954.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>This year, Toby and Anton are in different schools, so they have different spring breaks, for the first time ever. The silver lining was that we could take one-on-one trips, which felt really special. Last week, Toby and I went to San Francisco to visit our family\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"1\" data-article-image-position2=\"1\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lucy-kalanithi-scaled-1.jpeg\" alt=\"Lucy Kalanithi\" width=\"2133\" height=\"2422\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-356038\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lucy-kalanithi-scaled-1.jpeg 2133w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lucy-kalanithi-scaled-1-425x483.jpeg 425w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lucy-kalanithi-scaled-1-680x772.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lucy-kalanithi-scaled-1-768x872.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lucy-kalanithi-scaled-1-1353x1536.jpeg 1353w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lucy-kalanithi-scaled-1-1804x2048.jpeg 1804w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lucy-kalanithi-scaled-1-1272x1444.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2133px) 100vw, 2133px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>As soon as we arrived, we beelined to <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/tag\/lucy-kalanithi\/\" target=\"_blank\">my sister Lucy\u2019s<\/a> house. How cute is she?<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"2\" data-article-image-position2=\"2\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Screenshot-2026-03-31-at-11.12.08-AM.png\" alt=\"niece\" width=\"1098\" height=\"1360\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-356026\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Screenshot-2026-03-31-at-11.12.08-AM.png 1098w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Screenshot-2026-03-31-at-11.12.08-AM-390x483.png 390w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Screenshot-2026-03-31-at-11.12.08-AM-680x842.png 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Screenshot-2026-03-31-at-11.12.08-AM-768x951.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1098px) 100vw, 1098px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>My niece and I have a long tradition of playing Block Blast while chatting about everything\/nothing in particular; so after taking an evening walk and eating pasta for dinner, we did just that.<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"3\" data-article-image-position2=\"3\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0080.jpeg\" alt=\"sutro baths\" width=\"1536\" height=\"2048\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355879\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0080.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0080-362x483.jpeg 362w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0080-680x907.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0080-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0080-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0080-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0080-1272x1696.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>The next day, Toby and I went to Sutro Baths, the former public indoor swimming pool complex. The fresh ocean air felt so good on our faces.<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"4\" data-article-image-position2=\"4\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0086.jpeg\" alt=\"escape from Alcatraz comic book\" width=\"1536\" height=\"2048\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355881\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0086.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0086-362x483.jpeg 362w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0086-680x907.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0086-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0086-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0086-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0086-1272x1696.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>We also got this <a href=\"https:\/\/store.parksconservancy.org\/products\/comic-escape-from-alcatraz-the-dummy-head-breakout\" target=\"_blank\">cool comic book<\/a> to bring home to Anton.<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"5\" data-article-image-position2=\"5\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0065.jpeg\" alt=\"packing list\" width=\"1536\" height=\"2048\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355877\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0065.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0065-362x483.jpeg 362w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0065-680x907.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0065-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0065-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0065-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0065-1272x1696.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Separately, since we\u2019ve <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/category\/travel\/packing-tips\/\" target=\"_blank\">talked about packing<\/a> a lot in the past, I was happy with my packing strategy! Mostly black, white, cream, gray, and blue, so everything was mix and match. Pictured here: <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-50193096\" target=\"_blank\">jacket<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-50193164\" target=\"_blank\">shirt<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/go.shopmy.us\/p-50193205\" target=\"_blank\">jeans<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/goto.quince.com\/vDD3Z3\" target=\"_blank\">similar loafers<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"6\" data-article-image-position2=\"6\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0006.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1536\" height=\"2048\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355874\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0006.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0006-362x483.jpeg 362w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0006-680x907.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0006-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0006-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0006-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0006-1272x1696.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>We borrowed my sister\u2019s car to get around, but one afternoon, just for fun, we took a self-driving Waymo. Watching the steering wheel turn on its own is trippy at first but soon feels VERY safe \u2014\u00a0Waymos are basically like A+ students, who come to a full roll-back stop at every stop sign. My brother-in-law Jeevan told me that he once saw a line of 10 Waymos patiently following a garbage truck up a hill without even attempting to go around, haha.<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"7\" data-article-image-position2=\"7\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9866.jpeg\" alt=\"toby\" width=\"1536\" height=\"2048\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355891\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9866.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9866-362x483.jpeg 362w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9866-680x907.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9866-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9866-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9866-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9866-1272x1696.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>We were lucky enough to see some friends, like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/juliarobbs\/\" target=\"_blank\">Julia<\/a> and her toddler daughter\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"8\" data-article-image-position2=\"8\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9868.jpeg\" alt=\"toby\" width=\"1536\" height=\"2048\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355892\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9868.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9868-362x483.jpeg 362w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9868-680x907.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9868-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9868-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9868-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9868-1272x1696.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\u2026who gazed at teenager Toby like he was the world\u2019s biggest celebrity. <\/p>\n<p data-bleed=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"9\" data-article-image-position1=\"9\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0515.jpeg\" alt=\"warriors game\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1536\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355888\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0515.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0515-644x483.jpeg 644w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0515-680x510.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0515-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0515-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0515-1272x954.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\"\/><\/p>\n<p data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"10\" data-article-image-position2=\"10\" data-article-image-continuo=\"1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/steph-curry-warriors-game.jpg.jpeg\" alt=\"warriors game\" width=\"1542\" height=\"1479\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-356041\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/steph-curry-warriors-game.jpg.jpeg 1542w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/steph-curry-warriors-game.jpg-504x483.jpeg 504w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/steph-curry-warriors-game.jpg-680x652.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/steph-curry-warriors-game.jpg-768x737.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/steph-curry-warriors-game.jpg-1536x1473.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/steph-curry-warriors-game.jpg-1272x1220.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1542px) 100vw, 1542px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>We also went to a Warriors game with some pals.<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"11\" data-article-image-position2=\"11\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/5652959519187103609.jpg\" alt=\"warriors game\" width=\"872\" height=\"1158\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355873\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/5652959519187103609.jpg 872w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/5652959519187103609-364x483.jpg 364w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/5652959519187103609-680x903.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/5652959519187103609-768x1020.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 872px) 100vw, 872px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>A real nail-biter\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"12\" data-article-image-position2=\"12\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/3213900220411367244.jpg\" alt=\"warriors game\" width=\"1272\" height=\"1689\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355872\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/3213900220411367244.jpg 1272w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/3213900220411367244-364x483.jpg 364w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/3213900220411367244-680x903.jpg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/3213900220411367244-768x1020.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/3213900220411367244-1157x1536.jpg 1157w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1272px) 100vw, 1272px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\u2026but they pulled off a 109-106 victory in the final MINUTE.<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"13\" data-article-image-position2=\"13\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0112.jpeg\" alt=\"warriors jacket Elias Guting\" width=\"1536\" height=\"2048\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0112.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0112-362x483.jpeg 362w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0112-680x907.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0112-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0112-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0112-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0112-1272x1696.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\"\/><\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"14\" data-article-image-position2=\"14\" data-article-image-continuo=\"1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0111.jpeg\" alt=\"warriors jacket Elias Guting\" width=\"1536\" height=\"2048\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355883\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0111.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0111-362x483.jpeg 362w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0111-680x907.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0111-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0111-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0111-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0111-1272x1696.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Also, how cool is this jacket???? The guy wearing it told me it was made by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/eliasgoodthang\/\" target=\"_blank\">Elias Guting<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"15\" data-article-image-position2=\"15\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9978.jpeg\" alt=\"Lombard street\" width=\"1536\" height=\"2048\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355896\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9978.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9978-362x483.jpeg 362w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9978-680x907.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9978-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9978-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9978-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9978-1272x1696.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>The next day, Toby and I walked along the water, explored the Ferry Building, and drove down twisty Lombard Street (hard to capture in photos!).<\/p>\n<p data-bleed=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"16\" data-article-image-position1=\"16\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0010.jpeg\" alt=\"kalanithis\" width=\"2048\" height=\"1536\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355875\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0010.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0010-644x483.jpeg 644w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0010-680x510.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0010-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0010-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0010-1272x954.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2048px) 100vw, 2048px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Last but not least, we had dinner with the cousins\u2026<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"17\" data-article-image-position2=\"17\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0219.jpeg\" alt=\"toby dr Kalanithi\" width=\"1536\" height=\"2048\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355885\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0219.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0219-362x483.jpeg 362w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0219-680x907.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0219-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0219-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0219-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_0219-1272x1696.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\u2026and did a quick height check. As I took this photo, Dr. Kalanithi asked, \u201cAre we the same?????\u201d to which I replied, \u201cNot even a little bit.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-offset=\"1\" data-article-image=\"1\" data-article-image-position=\"18\" data-article-image-position2=\"18\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9735.jpeg\" alt=\"California trip\" width=\"1536\" height=\"2048\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-355889\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9735.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9735-362x483.jpeg 362w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9735-680x907.jpeg 680w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9735-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9735-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9735-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/IMG_9735-1272x1696.jpeg 1272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Finally, we said goodbye and flew home, stepping over this dude\u2019s foot every time we had to get up lol. It was such a joyous trip and we felt so, so lucky to be able to see everyone. California, we love you!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Where does your family live? Close by or far away? How do you stay in touch? My sister and I also do <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2023\/09\/28\/long-distance-friendship-tip\/\" target=\"_blank\">five-minute phone calls<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>P.S. <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/tag\/california-vacation\/\" target=\"_blank\">Past California trips<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2022\/01\/31\/raising-twins-lucy-joanna\/\" target=\"_blank\">what it\u2019s like to be twins<\/a>.<\/p>\n<section class=\"article-meta aside-meta\">\n<p>\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2026\/03\/31\/our-trip-to-san-francisco\/#comments\"><\/p>\n<p><span>163<\/span> COMMENTS<\/p>\n<p><\/a><\/p>\n<\/section><\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/cupofjo.com\/2026\/03\/31\/our-trip-to-san-francisco\/\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This year, Toby and Anton are in different schools, so they have different spring breaks, for the first time ever. 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